Sometimes we deal with difficult relationships or situations. We know they do not meet our needs and we take on avoidance behaviors and compliance attitudes of indifference. I get it! Sometimes it is easier to maintain the less then ideal than to take something apart and restart, rebuild or begin fresh.
If you are in a holding pattern of avoidance and you are voicing concern and displeasure with a job, relationship or situation. Ask yourself the hard questions. Why are you still there? What need does it meet for you? What are you holding on to and what do you fear? Sometimes we tread water as a way to avoid risk and sometimes we do it because we don’t have the energy to move from the holding pattern.
Be happy with whatever choice you make and make the most of the time you have in whatever situation you choose.